The Weight of a Rose
People kept telling her that she would get over him. It was almost always said with good intentions, usually accompanied by the same familiar assurances: give it time, keep yourself busy, stop thinking about him, meet new people, focus on yourself. She knew they were trying to help, and perhaps there was nothing else anyone could say to a person whose heart had just been handed back to her after she had spent years placing it in someone else's hands. Still, every time somebody told her that she would eventually “get over him,” something about those words felt terribly inadequate. Getting over rejection was one thing. Rejection wounded the ego, embarrassed hope and forced a person to accept an answer they had desperately wanted to be different. Perhaps time could heal that. Perhaps one could eventually understand that another person's refusal was not a verdict on one's worth. But getting over someone who had become your world was something else entirely. How were you sup...